It has been 21 years since I’ve seen my cousin Janis. I don’t have many memories of her due to our age difference. My parents and I were visiting New Jersey for my nieces wedding. During the trip we visited Janis for an afternoon. She was so excited and happy to see us and made us feel welcome. My dad was not doing well at the time, it was shortly before he passed. While we were at Janis’ home he got sick, Janis comforted and took care of him; she was so kind.